ExcerptTen Tips for Talking With Your ChildrenCertainly we knew there’d come the time for the “big talk,” but who knew we’d be struggling with how to talk to our children about drugs and AIDS and gay relationships, guns and violence at school, and kids who kill other kids. Our world has grown more complex and the media, including the Internet, has swung wide the doors to information and misinformation. Talking with our children about difficult and often disturbing issues has never been more critical. Following are some tips that may help. 1. It’s never too soon to start. Kids are hearing about issues at an earlier age. 2. Don’t wait for them to ask. Just because they haven’t asked about something doesn’t mean they don’t want or need information. 3. Tackle subjects even if you’re uncomfortable. Set aside your own feelings and initiate dialogue.
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